Looking for the hottest sugar babies website that is free for all sugar babies to use with full account access, privacy controls, and which takes financial scams very seriously?
It seems all the sugar daddy and baby dating websites and apps these days are just full of third world scammers trying to lure you into a scam involving either them asking for your bank account information (under the disguise that they’re about to wire you thousands of dollars even though they’ve only chatted with you for 3 minutes) or through having you load a prepaid card where they’re going to deposit money into your account.
Truth of the matter is that no real sugar daddy is that desperate to hand out his hard earned cash for nothing in return. It sounds ludacris but given the nature of sugar babies websites and the desperation some sugar babies have due to a financial crisis, it then becomes easy to understand why this continues to happen and why some unsavory individuals prey on them this way.
But does this mean that just because what is currently has to be always be in the future? I’m arguing that it does not, though there’s certainly a lot of obstacles to overcome and limitations that hinders it.
For one, anonymity plays a double edged sword here. It serves to protect those whose careers my depend on it, or even their marriage, or maybe even to keep mom and dad out of ones adult life. The reasons why one would want to protect themselves is endless and rightfully so. Just like most private matters, no one wants their neighbor to be in their business, and sugar dating is no different. But with anonymity comes the bad actors that take advantage of the flaws in technology, security, and privacy and use this to their advantage.
If for no other reason, you absolutely must keep this in mind at all times, especially in the beginning of a newly found relationship online. If your gut feeling tells you that something is off, best stick with it. Better to be safe than sorry.
But what if you’re new to the online dating scene? Here’s where you usually get into trouble as you’ve just not developed the feel for the way things progress online.
First off, no one, and this goes for guys and girls, is so desperate that they must meet you and do so right this second. Anyone that’s worth their salt won’t rush anything. Why is that? Because they’ve got a life outside of all this and they’re merely enhancing it with the use of an online dating site.
Sugar daddies aren’t desperate to throw cash around so much so that they need your banking info right now before their plunder goes up in smoke. If a sugar daddy were to act this way for very long he’d be a broke splenda daddy and quick. Having a sugar daddy supply you with money first requires trust and trust isn’t built on the second chat message through a website. Trust takes time, probably more time than most sugar babies ever envision having to put forth initially.
What’s the Solution to a Safer Sugar Baby Dating Website?
It begins with awareness. Once you’re aware that sugar dating is no different than normal dating in terms of how people interact by selecting those that might match their needs, and then vette down the selections based on conversations, etc, will you be able to draw upon other life situations to help keep you safe while having fun.
I mean, fun is the whole point of this, isn’t it? Of course it is and there’s plenty of it to be had once you get passed the necessary precautions during the awareness phase.
Awareness also means to listen and observe. For example, does the person claim to be from the same homeland as you yet their dialect is off? This could be a red flag and should be explored further which might lead to a simple misunderstanding or potentially kills this conversation right there because something is too far off and the danger of proceeding never outweighs the reward.
Now, there’s unfortunately always a flip side to the coin here as not everyone is going to be honest and forthcoming about who they are, what they do, and so on for a reason. And that reason goes back to anonymity. This is the catch 22 with sugar dating. Though not malicious with intent, a big majority of Sugar Daddy’s prefer to stay anonymous and not in the public eye. For this reason, many will conceal their details until they trust you, some may never give up all their information.
Are they being malicious in doing so? No, as this serves a much different purpose than someone trying to deceive for gain. Unfortunately, this is more of an art than science and if you’re not experienced enough to trust your gut feel then it would behoove you to take things even more slowly and cautiously. Any real sugar daddy or sugar baby will respect caution and taking things slowly much more so than someone who’s out of control and never met a stranger.
Best Advice: Take it Slow
As they say, Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither your imaginary designer shoe collection be either. All good things in life take time and effort. Sugar dating is no different and nor should you expect it to be any different.
It is where reality and our expectations collide that our perception of success or failure meet. If you have this idea of becoming a princess overnight with hundreds of thousands of dollars in your bank account at your disposal then you’re setting yourself up for a very bad experience, and unnecessarily so. By doing this, you’re almost destined for failure as there’s little room for reality to work within.
Instead, go into this with an open mind and cautious optimism one would approach anything really, whether it be a new friendship, new business venture, or new hobby. Realize that just like anything you do that is new to you will take time to adjust to the flow and tempo as well as getting to know the lingo and nuances every community has, whether or not its a dating site or fly fishing forum.
What is Sugay Club
Sugary Club is a sugar daddy and sugar baby dating website that was built with community